Sexfights and Erotic Wrestling
A sexfight is a voluntary erotic physical competition involving at least one woman and leading to one or more orgasms. Sexfights come in many different forms, but they all seek, in one way or another, to solve the question 'Who is the better woman?"
There are several variations, but the most common version involves forcing the opponent to orgasm against their will. Tribadism is a favoured tool because it creates mutual stimulation and keeps most other factors equal while determining who will cum first. When the action is kept to Tribadism exclusively it is often called a Pussyfight (described below). Often in an Erotic Competitions however, while other techniques are allowed, the competitors may favour Tribadism exclusively and the bout would still be labeled a sexfight.
In real life sexfights are quite rare. They are far more common in erotica available primarily on the Internet. As with much fetish material, sexfight material has an extremely limited audience.
Pussyfight
The so called pussyfight is a sole lesbian, tribadistic competition between two women. Both women will try to use many different Tribadism positions either to make their opponent submit or to make her come first. However, the pussyfight is more a popular male fantasy than that it is a lesbian reality. However, there are rumours existing that some fashion models who, due to their jobs, cannot afford to get any bruises from catfighting would often agree to have a pussyfight with each other to settle their differences and to prove to her rival who the better woman is.
Catfighting
A sexfight differs from a catfight, which involves scratching, slapping, perhaps arm twisting, tit-squeezing, hair-pulling, punching and even biting but does not normally involve trying to cause force an orgasm.
Erotic Wrestling
Wrestling is not sexfighting by definition. Since it is a sport, no sexual elements exist. However, as an erotic foreplay, wrestling each other can be certainly erotic, and some of its accidental positions could develop into mutual masturbation or frottage, and approach tribadism. If two females move each other into tribadistic positions during an erotic wrestling match, perhaps sometimes even by accident, and if the two females like and agree to enjoy their bodies, then sometimes they will end up in a sexfight or pussyfight. Ideally this kind of competitive tribadism will end in mutual orgasms for both women.
Sexfight Variations
These are the common variations found either in stories or in videos:
- Erotic Wrestling This is one of the most common sexfight forms. Two women wrestle naked, or in bikinis, or in bras and panties, or in bras and pantyhose. Often they wear stockings and garterbelts. The holds generally involve "wrestling around" rather than either formal amateur or pro wrestling techinques.
- Loser Cums First Whoever cums first loses. A problem with this is that for commercial videos it results in women wrestling around for 90 minutes with one orgasm, and that doesn't sell well. For stories it involves loads of build-up that gets boring.
- Two Out of Three AvidMike at Chickfight.com started this. His original videos were "loser cums first". Of course, a commercial video in his price range needs to be at least an hour, so if one opponent cums after 20 minutes they have to continue to have a saleable product.
- Most Orgasms in an Hour This started with Sasha vs. Monique from Chickfight. The video started as "best two out of three". However, the two girls were lesbians and lovers in real life and, unlike previous videos, they did not try to defend against stimulation. The result was three forced orgasms in less than ten minutes! Sasha is extremely aggressive and has had more than 10 orgasms in each of her videos, although she only lost one sexfight, to Dakota.
- Trib-only Some women prefer tribadism because it can be very erotic and stimulating, so they limit the fight to tribadism. An example was Veronika vs. Alexis at Chickfight.com. Alexis deliberately chose tribadism because in her previous sexfight, where she won 2-0, tribadism was the main thing that turned her on.
- No Defense In early Chickfight videos, the women often fought to prevent their opponent from stimulating them. Nakita Cross had several fights that ended with a single orgasm. Because sexfight fans are more interested in the "sex" than the "fight", such videos don't sell well. Newer Chickfight videos often involve competitors just seeing how can hold out longer with direct clit-to-clit stimulation.
- Go At It Mechanically This is a common complaint about many videos from Danube Womens Wrestling, a major European producer of unscripted sexfight videos. (See TribGirls) Often the two women simply get into a scissors-trib position and just mechanically rub each other until one of them cums.
- Battle of Wills In this variation the women engage in mutual stimulation until either one breaks off or one cums. This usually involves trib, 69, mutual deep-fingering, or rubbing each other's clits.
- Victory Orgasm The women agree that the loser will eat the winner's pussy until the winner cums. Usually, the loser lies on her back and the winner sits on her face as a symbol of conquest.
- Humiliation This is common in stories and occasionally appears in scripted videos. The idea is that two women sexfight either over a man or lesbian lover or for dominance.
In this variation a "point" can be scored in several ways:
- Force the opponent to orgasm against her will
- Force your own orgasm while preventing the opponent from preventing it. For instance, a woman gets her opponent in a "school-girl" pin and then rubs her own clit until she cums all over her opponent's face.
- Force the opponent to bring her to orgasm. For instance, hold the opponent in a school-girl pin and force her to eat your pussy until you cum.
Participating
If anyone tries these in real life it is extremely important to agree on the rules in advance in detail. There have been reports of real-life sexfights where each woman claimed she won and it led to real a fight - the woman on the bottom said, "I made you cum. I won." The woman on top said, "I got myself off while controlling you. "I" won.